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3SMOV Radio Episode 8
0Sorry for the delay folks but I had a little be going on in my life recently. Fret not, we are back and this show proves that we still gots it!
The theme of this show seems to be babies, sex, and the stories that tie them together. We talk a lot about movies and how strange Hollywood has gotten to make a film. There’s some videogame news, and a the obligatory poop story, or two.
Intro:
Never Seen Before (Remix) – EPMD
Outro:
Becoming – Pantera
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Whatcha Been Playing??
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So given the recent arrival of my son, I figured that I wouldn’t have ANY free time on my hands. Come time find out, that isn’t entirely true. Now that doesn’t mean that soon to come I won’t have a chance to do anything for myself. I am not delusional, but at this point in his development, he requires minimal attention. So what can I do with all my free time… Well what comes natural to me, play every game I can get my hands on. So that’s exactly what I did.
Over the past several weeks I have managed to complete several games and come close in several more. I started a while ago (thanks to 1Up Yours) accumulating a “Pile of Shame.” There are more than a few games in there that when I mention that I have yet to finish them, I say it with my head hung in shame. So I was more than happy to take a couple off the pile. Here are a few of them, and a couple more that I am almost finished with.

Hero Vs. Giant Troll
First off, I managed to play through the bulk of (since I had barely scratched the surface of) and actually finish Fable II. Now that doesn’t mean that I “completed” Fable II, just that I was able to finish the main story line. I played through the story as a mostly good guy, and I guess it was pretty fun doing so. Along the way I did realize that this game would be EXTREMELY short if all you did was try to advance the main quest, and never touched the side missions. Once I did get to the ending, I was shocked at how completely anti-climactic the ending was. When the final “boss” was going through his diatribe, I just hit him with my sword to shut him up and start the fight. Not knowing that in doing so would instantly kill him… LAME. After such a build up before hand i expected an epic battle, and was handed a one hit death, that’s pretty weak. Not to mention that as I said on twitter, that fucker shot my dog, and that sir ain’t cool.
I am going to go ahead and play through the Knot-Hole Island DLC that I purchased the other day though. Then when all that is done, I will probably go back and start again this time being a total dick to everyone and anyone that I come across. Not sure if that will change my experience as a whole with the game, but I figure it’s worth a shot. All in all the game is actually quite good. There is much much more that I need to accomplish before feeling that I have “Completed” the game. Several times I caught myself just kind of staring off into the background of some lush scene and being amazed at some of the level of detail in the game. I would recommend it to someone that is looking for a well done non-linear RPG for the 360.

Inside an Oblivion Gate
Next up on the list is a game that is sooo old I am very ashamed to say that I never finished it, but I have a good reason. That game would be Elder Scrolls IV: Oblivion. Yeah I know, that is pretty much a launch title. At first it was just a game that I didn’t want to end so i futzed around with side quests and what not for months. Then, sadly, it killed my first 360, and I never went back to it. From the time that my 360 “red-ringed” playing Oblivion to the time I picked it up again to play, literally over a year had passed. I was to damn scared to fire it up again. However, I bit the bullet and decided that now was the time for me to finally finish the quest I started years before.
So after over 120 hours in the game, I went ahead and started to walk the final path in the game. Oblivion, unlike Fable II, did not disappoint as far as the final fight and story goes. Closing the “Great Gate” was a task and a half when everyone and their evil grandmother is trying to stop you. Though it was fun to loot the bodies of the dead after coming back through again. Then it was on to “Paradise” to destroy the final boss. I can’t say that fighting him was all that hard of a battle, but then again when you are 100+ hours into a game and can kill most anything with two hits, it’s hard to have a long fight.

Mario takes on "the world"
Knocking both of those off the pile really made me feel better about myself as a gamer. They had long been mocking me, and I should have taken care of them well before I actually got around to it. It did inspire me to try and finish more games while I could though, so I made a go at other games as well. Not quite to the point of completion on the rest but I did get much closer, and that’s what counts.
Topping that list is Super Mario Galaxies. I had played through about three stages before I got bored with it and decided to put it down. When I picked it back up, I played through about five more. I really don’t know how close I am to finishing the game, but if I had to lay a guess out, I would say with in a world or two.

Guns and Doves...
Next up we have John Woo’s: Stranglehold. Yeah it wasn’t that great of a game, but it has a subtle charm to it. I will freely admit that I have not paid ANY attention to the story. Actually at one point I think he killed a woman for some reason, maybe, and I was left to wonder why because I skipped the cut-scene. Oh well. This one I am almost completely done with. Currently I am trying to finish off the last stage and boss fight. The game is full of action, to be sure, but none of it is done so well that you could label the game as something “not to be missed”. I will finish it, and for the price paid ($10 when Circuit City was going under) I can’t really complain about what I am getting out of the game.

Japanese Rhythm Fun
Also, since I was in the hospital with my wife, waiting for my son to be released, I got to play a lot of DS(i) games. From Gamefly I rented “Rhythm Heaven” and enjoyed it for what it is. My wife asked me to describe it to her and the best way I could think of was to say that it is the bastard love child of the recent Wario games and PaRappa The Rapper. It’s a lot of quick games that involve a lot of timing and like the title implies… Rhythm. This was not a game that I was destined to finish however. I knew that starting out. I played through the first two sections of 9 (or is it 12) mini games. That was enough for me. It isn’t enough for me to give a full “review” on but it was a good game none the less.
There are probably other games in there that I am missing, but they all tend to blur together. My next couple games that am going to try and finish are Killzone 2 and Fallout 3. It will probably be a couple years on Fallout, but I guess given my track record with open world RPGs it’s not surprising. I will try to keep up with the reviews from here on out. Sorry for the lack of articles on the site but considering the recent events in my life, I think I am doing pretty well.
St. Mary’s Hospital RVA
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So this isn’t a normal kind of review for this site, but it’s note worthy.
Recently as most of you might know, my wife and I had a son. Brandon Xavier was born 4 weeks early (for some strange reason) and we were more than a little nervous about that. This is just a quick run down of how things happened, and about the absolutely WONDERFUL doctors and nurses that helped us though everything.
Friday April 24, 2009 was a day like any other for my wife and I, at least as it started out. Both of us went to work thinking that we still had several more weeks of preparation before the baby’s big day. Little did we know that would all change by 6pm that evening. When I got home from work, I went upstairs to find my wife in a slight state of panic. She informed me that she thought her water had broken. To which I quickly laughed and said “Yeah Right!” However I knew by the look on her face that she was, in fact, NOT JOKING in the least.
We called the Doctor, who also was a little skeptical that Mindy had begun the early stages of labor. Again we were, at that point, still four weeks away from the due date. But the Dr. told us to go ahead and come in so that she could get checked out and make sure that the baby was ok. Frantically we packed a bag with essentials, and hopped in the car headed to the hospital. Neither my wife nor myself were really concerned I guess you could say. We were joking about them sending us home and then going to Target and the grocery store as our “big Friday night” event.
Once we got to the hospital they took Mindy up and put her through the regular check up, and found out that yes she WAS in the early stages of labor. The nurse actually told us that we “weren’t leaving the hospital with out a baby.” (Which as it turns out was only half true…) Hooked up to monitors, sensors, IVs, and drips, we waited… A LOT. It was about 7:30pm or 8 by the time we actually got all checked in and saw the Dr. and NOTHING happened for the next eight hours.
Mostly my wife and I watched TV and just kinda talked and hung out. Then about 3 or 4 in the morning Mindy couldn’t take it any more (not the pain mind you, the boredom) and asked to get the epidural so that she could get comfortable enough to sleep. And that folks, was all it took. From the time it took me to go downstairs to talk to my family and get back to the room she had gone from 6cm to 9cm dilated. It was just about Go Time! She started pushing at about 5:45am and then at 6:39am little Brandon made his official entrance into this world. Probably the most chill and calm labor I have ever heard of. Yeah, that’s right, movies and TV depictions of labor and birth… mostly all LIES.
Long story short, Brandon was a tiny, early baby. He had some “issues” but never any “complications”. He never spent a second in the NICU, and was able to spend all his time in the regular nursery. His “issues” however were enough to keep him from going home right away. Thus begins the actual “review” part of this article.
St Mary’s of Richmond has by far the absolute nicest nurses and doctors I have ever had to deal with, period. We ended up having to spend an entire week in the hospital with the little guy while he worked through some things. We had the privilege to see probably about 5 or 6 different doctors and honestly more nurses than I can remember. Every single one of them bent over backwards to help us out and make us feel as comfortable and relaxed as we could in a kinda tense and uncomfortable situation.
At first we had to deal with the fact that we were in the L&D and Postpartum sections of the hospital during what can only be described as a localized “baby boom.” When Brandon was born at 6am, he was the 6th baby that our Dr had delivered since midnight, and he wasn’t the only Dr on call either. We were constantly wondering if and when we would lose our room. The nurses were always there to reassure us that even if we had to move they would find a place for us to stay so that we could be close to Brandon. When all was said and done we stayed in three different rooms over the course of the week. I wish hotels were this accommodating.
Never once did I have to worry about my son, and if he would be taken care of. Everyone there was more than willing to help us out, be that with feedings, changing diapers, getting us food (or discounts), most anything we needed the found a way to get it for us. If you are ever in the area and find yourself in need of a hospital, I suggest St. Mary’s. It could have been such a horrible week, waiting for our infant son to be released from the hospital, but it ended up being almost completely painless. It’s no wonder that this hospital is top ranked in pretty much everything that a hospital can be “ranked” in.
Time is winding down…
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So it has been a while since i have written anything about the fact that i have a kid on the way. Since i have been talking about it a lot more recently, and my wife is going to two baby showers this coming weekend, i decided i needed to write up something of an update/journal entry.
First of all, we are now 31 weeks into pregnancy. The first trimester was definitely a very surreal experience. My wife wasn’t “showing” at all and never got any of the dreaded morning sickness. As things progressed along, i got to hear the heartbeat a couple times, and see a few sonograms. Once we found out it was a boy i think it became real to me, before that it was just kinda like a dream that i was having, somewhere between real life and not quite believable imagination.
Everything with the baby so far has been a cake walk, and i am not only speaking for myself but for my wife. She hasn’t had any real side effects, if you want to call them that, until now. About a week or so ago she started to notice that her ankles were starting to slightly swell. Now you have to understand that to see my wife from the back you would never know she was pregnant… until she turned around. Her stomach isn’t even that big, actually her family and mine are both amazed that she is 31 weeks pregnant considering it’s size. All the Dr’s tell us that the baby is growing fine, he is doing well, it’s just that b/c of my wife’s height and her long torso, she carries the baby different from most people. So when she started seeing her ankles swell, it was like, “OK. Now it begins.”
I have had about seven months or so to get myself prepared for the baby’s arrival, and i think i have accomplished this. I am totally ready to change dirty diapers, get pissed on, and puked on. That stuff doesn’t bother me anymore. I think I have even started to get used to the fact that this little human will be totally 100% dependant upon my wife and I.
I started thinking about the kid and parenting the other day on a long car ride. What i have come to realize is that in most parents, it’s almost as if there is a switch inside of you that gets turned to “ON” when the baby comes. Poop, spit-up, drool by the bucket load, all the other things like that all just start to become common place. Maybe that is why you just get used to them. Once you get past that, most parents just work off of instinct. Protect and provide become the only things you think about. Parents forever have been doing things like this and have done just fine. In fact some parents don’t or didn’t have the luxuries that we have now, and have raised kids that grew up to be great people.
I have to say that i am very happy that my parents instilled in me the morals and values that they did. I know that through the hard days, and long nights, i will have those gifts backing up my decisions. Plus i can always call my parents in a pinch and ask questions. Speaking of my parents, they are ecstatic about me having a son. I am the only child or grand-child of 13 kids so it has been literally 30 years since there has been a male born into this family. So needless to say my son will be spoiled… and i am ok with that.
Even now my mother is at my house helping to get the nursury all set up for the baby. The coming week will be the final rush to get everything done. Granted we have almost 2 months before th baby gets here, but it will be nice to just have everything in line and ready should he decide to show up a little early.
I may not show it outwardly to everyone, but i am extremely excited about having a child. It is a BIG step forward in my life, one that will change how i do things forever, but i am ready. Actually as of this moment i have 2 months exactly to the due date. Sixty days and counting… down. So bring it on little Brandon Xavier… I am ready for you little guy!







